Finally Settled

Now that the dust has settled, it's time for an update blog post!

So, last I wrote on May 6th, Nick had accepted a job with a law firm in Stevens Point. We spent the previous weekend refreshing the kitchen (painting the countertops, putting in a new sink and faucet, new knobs, cleaning the cabinets), painting the deck, and basically packing up half of what we own to stage the house.

We had our listing appointment on May 7th. We decided to go the flat-fee MLS route to get the best of both worlds, since we were all ready to go. The house was listed on my birthday, and we got three showings scheduled for May 10th. We received an offer (full asking price!) on May 12th. We countered over some minor details and they accepted our counter May 13th, asking for closing to occur in exactly one month. On May 14th, I took the day off and we left the kids with Nick's parents and toured eight houses in the Rapids/Point area. Found the one for us, on which we put an offer on May 16th. We accepted the counter and whew! What a heck of a week!

Did I mention Nick moved up to Waupaca to stay briefly while we were down in Madison and start his new job May 19th? At least at the end of that week, we had a mini-holiday planned to celebrate our 6th anniversary. We met up in Green Bay, left the kids with Nick's parents, then had a lovely weekend forgetting about everything while we were up in Sister Bay. Nick lost his wedding band at the state park at which we went hiking one morning. We were so fortunate to find it just sitting in the parking lot where it just slipped off his car trunk, after our third trip up to that park in a day. Definitely got use out of our day pass!

NOTE TO ALL POTENTIAL HOMEBUYERS: Learn from my mistake, and DO NOT change any part of your mortgage application before closing. NONE. I was offered and accepted a job in Rapids three days before our scheduled closing. I informed my company the next day (my last day in the office) that I would be leaving at the end of the month. The bank called to verify my employment THAT AFTERNOON. And suddenly, closing fell apart. I had to scramble to prove my new offer was real, and it had to go back into underwriting for verification. Argh, argh, argh. Things were going so well - we knew it was only a matter of time before the other shoe dropped.

Anyway, it worked out well - the house builder/seller allowed us to move in on Friday after we closed on the house in Madison, and we scheduled the new closing for a few days later. He's been so incredibly nice and helpful in this process - let us move in, got our appliances hooked up, and he's making fixes around the house for us as we find them.

We love, love, love our new house. Everything is just *nice*. Big beautiful rooms, an unfinished basement, plenty of dirt the kids can track inside... :o)

And I'm finding that living up here again is both good and bad...
I missed: Seeing awesome lightning storms, very little traffic, having family so close by
I didn't miss: Instant sinus infections, no Target, wonky cell phone reception (which we just fixed by switching. Yay for new phones! - Head's up, new phone numbers coming soon!)

As for the kids, Felix had his last day of 4K before we left Madison. How much things have changed! He insisted on wearing the same shirt, so you can see how much he's grown. Possibly even the same shorts. :o)

Felix: 4.5 yrs & Iris: 21 mos

Big News!

We're moving! Nick just accepted a job with a law firm in Stevens Point (Lummis, Lloyd and Barkley) and he starts May 19th. I'm hoping to get a job with WisDOT in Rapids, which is where we will call home again if I do. In the meantime, it's going to be just me and the kids until we all move (oh boy...). We just endured a hugely busy weekend prepping the house for sale. If you happen to know of anybody in the market for a nice, spiffed-up 3+ bedroom house on a cul-de-sac in a great neighborhood, please let us know!

It's sad to leave Madison and everyone we have here, but as Felix told me today, "We can come down and play." Madison, don't forget about us!

A new adventure awaits!

Felix: 4.5 yrs & Iris: 20 mos

Easter Doings

Well, that was an eventful Easter weekend! It involved trips to Green Bay, Rapids, Waupaca and the emergency room. (Don't worry, everybody's fine.) We spent the first part of the weekend up in Green Bay, the first time we'd been up there in a while. Unfortunately, Iris hurt her hand while we were playing with her. Looking back, I think it was the combination of being hungry, tired, and a just a little bit in pain that made her shriek about it enough that we took her to the ER to have it looked at. As soon as we got there, she was her normal self, using her hand and not making any fuss about it. Oh well, better safe than sorry. That delayed our trip to Rapids, but not by much. It was nice enough in the afternoon to get the kids outside for an Easter Egg hunt. :o) Iris didn't quite get the concept, but Felix was so quick picking up his designated eggs that I could barely take a picture of him! On Sunday, we saw more family in Waupaca.

So, Iris is a little smarty pants. She's coming up on 20 months old, and already knows all the ABCs (by sight and how to say them) and recognizes all the numbers from 1-9. At my last count, she says over 320 words, and uses multiple word phrases. She will also answer your questions. For example, "Iris, where's my wallet?" "Ground." (Oh good, now I know not to look up for it.) "Iris, how did you bump your head?" "Jumping." Here's a video of her randomly telling me the letters on a manhole cover. Sorry for the vertical video - I was trying to take it quickly when I realized what she was doing.

Felix has been his usual, challenging self. We hit upon a way to motivate him to stay dry at night: for each dry night, he earned a star. Enough stars earned him a toy plane from the movie Planes. We started with two stars needed and are now on seven stars needed. He's pretty proud to draw the star himself and get the new plane. This is the last one - next he'll earn the sheets and we'll take away the pull ups. Wish us luck! He is a pretty strong-willed little guy, whose imagination has no bounds. He draws very detailed stories, as you can see.

The Princess and her baby (right side)
have spider fingers.

Here is Nick winning a trophy for
baseball

Olaf, Frosty and a praying mantis

Angry Birds

And finally, for your viewing pleasure, a game of Shriek-a-Boo the kids played last week. Iris requests it by asking for "Iris screaming". You might want your sound on low... :o)

Felix: 4.5 yrs & Iris: 19 mos

Cable-Free

I thought I'd share our experience being cable-free for a whole year now. Do I regret it? Not one bit.

1. We started by changing our internet provider to the fastest and cheapest around. 
2. We bought a Roku box to access all of our online streaming subscriptions in one place. We hooked this directly to our router to provide continuous internet feed.
3. We added our Netflix, Hulu, and Amazon Prime accounts. We also watch the PBS channel quite a bit. And we'll put on the Presto fireplace channel to have on in the background at times.
4. We purchased a PlayOn subscription, thinking this would allow us to stream ESPN, BigTen network, etc. It did not. We can watch YouTube videos through it, but it's a pain and just easier to watch that stuff on our computers.
5. We bought an antenna for our TV, so we can watch available Packers and Badgers games (note - we do miss pausing the game when dealing with the kids...).
6. We also purchased a side subscription that allows us to watch shows on the BBC.

That's it! Certain shows that we know we'll rewatch (Doctor Who, Psych and Archer), we purchase a season pass from Amazon Instant Video and they are downloaded to our account after they air. Amazon also is our source for old Iron Chef America episodes. Hulu is good for network shows (Parks & Rec, New Girl). We've used Netflix to discover series that we can watch at our own pace (Eureka, Top Gear, old episodes of all of the above). And the PBS channel on Roku has given me my Sherlock and Downton Abbey fixes. Speaking of the BBC, if you see Broadchurch or The Musketeers, WATCH THEM. They are amazing. [note: these are just a few of the shows to which I am particular.]

We're not big movie watchers, but there are several movie subscription channels that are available.

Badger game not on a network channel? Old school radio, baby.

Gratitude

Just when you think you're getting close to the light at the end of the tunnel, sometimes it collapses and you have to dig yourself out again by hand. This winter already seemed terrible and interminable when things got worse. This is officially going down in my memory as A Bad Winter (yes, capitalized).

But, it's the times when you struggle that make you grateful for what you've got. And we certainly have a lot. We've got our health (well, what's left of it after this winter), each other, incredible children, supportive families and friends, and lots of opportunities. We just hope they pan out soon.

We've thankfully had plenty of distractions lately, like three kids' birthday parties to attend. Those have been lots of fun for everybody, and it's so interesting to watch friends' kids grow up as well. We've gotten into homebrewing, and currently have two brews fermenting merrily in our basement. We've also taken the opportunity to rid of house of unwanted clutter. It's nice to have some storage space again. We have semi-nightly dance parties to Disney songs in our living room. Both kids very much like to "Move It".


The kids are doing well. Felix is really becoming an artist, making detailed pictures that have an equally detailed storyline. Here's a couple examples of recent artwork. I wish I had the story verbatim behind each one to share with you.

Iris is talking up a storm. She says more than 225 words (about half of them you don't need an Iris-to-English translation guide), is starting to use two-word phrases, and knows the numbers from 1-12 (even a few by sight), plus some letters. I'm really impressed with her language skills. She does have some funny pronunciations that we've struggled to translate. "Pyot" is spider. "Mugeet" is music. "Painah" is peanut butter. Context is everything...

We are confident things will work out for us, and soon. They did before, right? Right. And it could always be worse.

Felix: 4.5 yrs & Iris: 18 mos

Cold(s)

Usually, I try to post once a month, but January and now February have been much of the same for us: cold and colds.

We've been passing around colds like they're hors d'oeuvres at a fancy party. Today, Iris is back to daycare after 3 feverish days (brought upon by her first ear infection - we're actually pretty lucky that it took her 17 months to require her first prescription) and Nick's cold has left him with no voice and his first sick day in forever.

And then it's been cold. The kids' daycare closed for three days in January because of the cold. The most recent one, we met Cassie at the mall and let the kids run around like the pack of old men doing laps. It was more exercise than they would have gotten at home!

And it's been snowy. Mazda5s are not made for winter. I cringe with each snowfall, because my tires seem to want to do anything but drive through it properly. Nick and I have actually traded cars on occasion because his handles the slippery roads much, much better, and he takes a more-traveled route to work.















There were some bright spots recently, though. We had my company Christmas party late in January, complete with scary caricatures and karaoke. It was (surprisingly) my first time doing karaoke, and I sang We Didn't Start The Fire solo. Sometimes I like to show off. ;o) I also won a gift card in the raffle, which totally made my night.

 The day after the party, we went to the Children's Museum with my parents. Felix liked to show off the different areas. And once again, Iris proceeded to do all but throw herself in the water play area. Next time, I'll remember spare socks and shoes in addition to the spare outfit... I'm glad we got a membership - it's nice to go there for an hour or two without feeling like we're not getting our money's worth.

And SHERLOCK. Those new episodes made me a very happy lady.

Felix has gotten into the movie Planes and spends most of his free time playing with his die-cast figures or drawing jets, like the one in the picture. He said that's air coming out of the engines. He's also improving at night, which has been great. As soon as he can be consistently dry all night, he'll earn himself a set of Planes sheets. He's excited about that.







And because I don't have a lot of other stuff to offer, here's a few videos I've taken recently of Iris:

Felix: 4.5 yrs & Iris: 17 mos

Merry Happy Season's Greetings!

This month flew by! We decided to join the Madison Children's Museum as members, and have made a couple trips there. Both kids enjoy it, and we'll be doing that a lot this coming year. We spent a weekend morning with a few of Nick's new coworkers and their families, making Christmas cookies. It was nice to put names to faces. Unfortunately, we've had our share of colds and other sicknesses. 'Tis the season, I suppose. Things just keep getting passed from one person the next, and once again back to me, it seems. I hope our bodies will adjust to the constant barrage of viruses soon.

It was definitely a white Christmas here. We've gotten ~ 10 inches of snow so far. I bought new sleds, and we tested them out one weekend. They might be a bit too fast for our backyard - both kids were done (and snowy-faced) after only two runs each.

Iris has been suddenly full of words, many of which we can actually understand. Sh can identify and say more unusual shapes (moon, star, heart), knows most of her major body parts (though her nose sometimes is on her ear), and now is full of "Mama!" and "Papa!" She can't say Felix, so she's taken to calling him "Bada" (which I think might mean "brother"). As usual, it's a learning experience and she says several things that I have difficulty translating. I'm sure I'll figure them out soon. Right around Christmas, she learned how to say "no", much to our chagrin. Now, it's "no" to everything, even the things she wants. She is also getting pretty aggressive; she hits and throws things when she doesn't want to do something. Argh. Do we have a tomboy? Maybe. She also just started feeding herself with a spoon and fork. We still aren't sure if she's a leftie or a rightie.

And now on to Christmas. Felix has been so excited about it this year, though his behavior hasn't been the greatest. He's been awfully demanding and prone to wailing if told he can't have something NOW. Patience comes with age, I suppose. He assumes everything he sees in ads that he wants is something Santa will bring him. We've tried to temper that, saying that it'll go on his wish list instead.

We went up to Rapids on the 24th to spend Christmas with my side. It's been a family tradition since Felix was born that we do a theme Christmas picture. This year, Fancy! We got all dolled up with antique rhinestones (even Felix - he wanted to get in on the fun). We opened family presents that night. The kids got lots of nice stuff, and we got a beer brewing kit among other great gifts. We then had a nice time at Maxine & Dennis's on the 25th. And... that night, KENDRA CAME OVER AND WE WATCHED DOCTOR WHO TOGETHER! Sorry, I'm still excited that it happened. Since we both share a love of Doctor Who, we bade adieu to the 11th Doctor. Happy/sad.

We had Nick's parents down the following Friday. We had a nice time, then they spent the night before we drove to Germantown to have the that family Christmas. We had a lot of fun with lots of family. Nick got green and gold flamingos, which promptly went in the front yard in time for the Packers game. (Yay!)

Nick and I had the whole week off, but had the kids go to day care on Monday and Friday. On Monday, Nick and I went to my first movie in a theater since 2006 (we saw Anchorman 2), then went out to lunch at Novanta (mmm, wood-fired pizza). And then we got a water softener installed. Yay! Friday, we made our first batch of homebrew. Can't wait to try it.

Hope you had a great 2013 and a wonderful 2014!

Felix: 4 yrs & Iris: 16 mos