Sunday, December 8, 2019

2019 Holiday Card

Bones vacances!*

Memorial Terrace, 7.20.19
Season's Greetings! 2019 for us meant sports. Felix was on a travel baseball team again and has really shown himself to be a tough player. He also took golf lessons. Iris tried hockey, softball, and recently started wrestling.

We traveled to Chicago for spring break, while Nick and Cara took an unexpectedly exciting trip to Barcelona in October.

Felix is 10 years old, in 5th grade, gifted and talented in math, loves baseball and farming video games, and wants to be an auto designer or software engineer someday.

Iris is 7 years old, in 2nd grade, gifted and talented in math and English, loves cats and sports, and wants to be a scientist.

We're looking forward to more adventures in 2020! We hope you have a wonderful holiday season! Please keep in touch!

With love,
The Abts Family


* Catalan for Happy Holidays. :o)


Felix: 10 yrs & Iris: 7 yrs

Saturday, October 19, 2019

Since Summer

Yikes, I just realized I hadn't done a blog post since mid-summer. It's been a pretty busy few months, so let's catch up.

The week after my last post, a major windstorm hit Rapids the morning we drove down to Madison for a quick visit. There were so many trees down in the area. We luckily didn't lose any, but people in the area were without power for anywhere from 1 (us) to 6+ (my parents) days. We had already planned on having the kids go to Green Bay for the week, so they just went a day earlier than expected. My parents lost a big one in the back yard.

We saw a lot of family over July and August. We had a reunion of my mom's side at my uncle's wedding. Nice to see everyone together again! The weekend after that, Nick's dad side had its annual reunion. We also went to a wedding of Nick's cousin on his mom's side, and spent a weekend with his parents up north.

We got Iris into hockey with two camps. She looked like she was doing well, but when asked if she wanted to do a whole season of hockey, she declined in favor of doing Girl Scouts again.

Iris turned 7 at the end of August! She had a friend sleep over the night of her birthday, and they went to Skate City for an hour with Felix.
Iris is 7!
The kids started school. Felix has the same teacher as last year (in the same 4/5 combined class), while Iris has a teacher new to the school. Both have been doing well so far this year.

We had a couple of evenings at the beginning of October where we got to see the International Space Station go overhead. I got this picture of Nick and the kids watching it.

Awesome things: Our trip to Barcelona, BoJack Horseman, the Brewers September (but not the Wildcard game...), the start of the Badgers football season.

Felix: 10 yrs & Iris: 7 yrs

Barcelona 2019

Hola! Nick and I just returned from our trip to Barcelona, and, boy, do I have a lot to unpack (figuratively).

October 11-12: We started planning this trip for the two of us back in June, when I found some super cheap airline tickets. We left our kids to my parents, and took off to Chicago midday on Friday. We had a red-eye direct to Barcelona, and although our 10:05 was delayed until 11 pm, we were finally on our way. We left the rainy, chilly Midwest good-bye. We arrived in Barcelona at about 2:15 pm local time on Saturday. We then waited TWO HOURS in line to go through the passport check (no joke, we got past it at 4:25 pm). Catching the bus into town was surprisingly quick and easy after that. We made out way into the glorious, sunny, mid-70s day. We got off at Plaça Espanya, walked 15 minutes to our Poble-Sec-area Airbnb apartment, and were let in. It was a great, 3rd floor apartment, with a kitchen, washing machine, and enough space for us to stretch out. We rested a bit before going to the restaurant near Paral-lel that I had booked two months ago, Bodega 1900. It was our first meal in Spain, and, damn, did we pick a good one. It was a highly rated place, and for good reason. We ordered glasses of house vermouth and chose the "surprise menu", where the attentive waitstaff would continue to bring us tapas plates on the menu until we cried Uncle. I didn't take pictures of everything we were served, but many are in the bottom third of the photo below. My favorite was the grilled fresh squid with onions caramelized in ink. Mmmm. After dinner, we headed back to the apartment and tried to find the Badger football game on TV. We ended up listening to it on the radio until we gave in to exhaustion at midnight.
So much good food!
October 13: Sundays are generally pretty quiet around Barcelona, so I had signed us up for a free Runner Bean walking tour of the Gothic Quarter. We slept in past 8, then walked down to Plaça Reial to be early for our 11 am tour. We got put in a group with Jessie, an Australian woman living in Barcelona for several years. Our group of 22 weaved in and out of the narrow streets as she gave us details as to the history of Barcelona and certain sights at which we stopped. It was a great introduction to the city and area. Afterward, we headed to a restaurant she recommended, and while the food was good, the service was disappointingly slow. We did a bit more walking around the Born area, then headed back to our apartment via the waterfront. We relaxed a bit and said hi to the kids, then decided to give our legs a workout by walking up nearby Montjuïc. It was a little cloudy and we got a bit off-path, but we made it to the castle/fortification and had a look around. We had a nice view of the port and the city below. The sun set while we were coming back down, and it got dark quickly. We walked under the orangy lights to Carrer de Blai, where we found a restaurant and had our first taste of pinxos (basically, an hors d'oeurve on a slice of French bread with a large toothpick securing them together). We ate until full, then headed back to the apartment for the night.
Gothic Quarter tour sights, waterfront, Montjuic
October 14: This morning, we got ready and took our first Metro ride to get ourselves to La Sagrada Familía basilica for our 10 am entry time. It was another gorgeous mid-70s day. We spent a couple of hours taking in all the wondrous details of Gaudí and other artists. I really can't explain it all in detail. Suffice it to say that it's definitely a must-see in Barcelona.
Sagrada Famila basilica
After our time there, we decided to get away from the crowds for a bit. We took a walk along Carrer d'Aragó, stopping for a quick sandwich and tiny coffee. We noticed the traffic around us was getting jammed, and realized why when we crossed a police barrier. The streets around Passeig de Gràcia were all blocked to traffic, so it was very strange to walk along a multilane road with only pedestrians in the streets. We were looking at the houses on the Block of Discord (like Casa Batlló) when we realized that there was a demonstration/protest in the works and we were part of it. Backstory: Two years ago, the Catalunya region held a vote for independence. That was considered illegal under Spanish law, and the leaders were arrested. Today, they announced the sentences for the jailed politicians (9-13 years). Many locals were NOT happy about this, and took to the streets. They converged on Plaça Catalunya as we watched from the sidelines. It seems peaceful, and there were no police officers in the mix, so I didn't get a strong tension vibe. While we watched, many started pouring into the Metro to go to the airport to protest there. We decided that was the time to leave, so we walked away from it, and stopped at a German bar for a couple of beers. The crowd dispersed and we continued our walk back to our apartment. On the way, we stopped at Mercat de Sant Antoni, where we bought some bread, ham and cheese to make our dinner, and I found a necklace with a pendant shaped like the paving blocks that are all over the city. It was mid-afternoon, and we were hungry, so after dropping things off at our apartment, we went to a ramen restaurant nearby for a change of pace. That hit the spot. We got gelato for dessert on our walk back to Carrer de Margarit. It started to rain, so we decided to stay in for the evening. We had our Netflix account hooked up to the TV, and ate our dinner late while watching episodes of BoJack Horseman. In the middle of the night, I was woken by a thunderstorm moving through.
Protests! Buildings!
October 15: The rain overnight washed the city clean and revealed a marvelously clear day, again in the mid-70s. We had some time to kill in the morning, so after we got ready, we walked through El Raval to La Rambla. There, we visited the Mercat de la Boqueria. There was an amazing variety of food (and people) there. So interesting and so many selfie-sticks. We caught the Metro from Liceu to Lesseps, hiked our way up to Park Güell, and arrived within our appointed half hour. We spent the next two hours wandering all over the park, looking at the Gaudí tilework, and the incredibly clear views from the hill towards the sea. We've got super calves after that excursion. We were hungry for lunch after, so we found a little hole in the wall place that definitely didn't cater to tourists (no English anywhere), but where we got a delicious Iberico ham flatbread with arugula and beers. We walked back to Passeig de Gràcia, found we had just missed another protest, and walked to see the Arc de Triomf. I liked that there were sculpted bats on it. More walking, back through El Born and into the Gothic Quarter, where we stopped for a pint of Strongbow at an Irish pub. Walked through the very diverse El Raval area to our dinner spot for the night - L'Amfora, where we had seafood paella and a delicious bottle of local white wine. Decided to walk to the Magic Fountain, which, unfortunately, was not running. The MNAC was lit up instead. We walked back through the Poble-Sec neighborhood under the orange lights back to our apartment.
Park Guell and a bit of La Rambla
October 16: Today was our first day waking up with the sunrise - 7:45. We headed to Plaça Catalunya to be there before 9 am. We were booked on a Montserrat tour and wine tasting experience. We were put into a group of 13 with Agnes, and there were two tour groups headed on the same excursion. We all boarded the coach bus and headed out of the city north towards the mountains. The other guide, Pol, gave a detailed description of local history and the history of the Montserrat Monastery. It took about an hour to get up to the monastery, on some very windy roads. Our bus was among dozens of other buses there, so many, many people. Agnes gave us about a half hour tour of the different areas of interest around the monastery, the history of it and some interesting things that are done now (like there's a boy's choir, and the monks make liquor). We got an hour of free time, so we bought a variety pack of the liquors, then walked along a windy, steep path to a place where we could get a great view of the monastery, the valley below, and all the way to the sea. After our free time was over, we got back on the bus and headed toward a quaint, quiet winery. It was about 2:30, so Agnes skipped the tour and took us straight for the tapas and wine tasting. Nice flow of conversation about the wines and life in general among the variety of people on our tour (a few midwesterners like us, two Canadians, a Danish couple, two women from Australia...). After the tasting, we got the brief tour and an opportunity to try the winery's cava. We did that while talking to one of the Australian women about the size of the spiders they have there. That was a pretty unique experience overall. We headed back to Barcelona and started our walk back. We stopped at La Boqueria market for food, and left with a cone full of whole, breaded fried fishes (not sure if they were sardines or anchovies or something else), and fried baby squiddies. Yum. We walked back to our apartment and relaxed... until we learned that the general strike planned for Catalunya was going to impact our flight plans for Friday. @#$%. Nick got on the phone with the airline while I looked up alternatives. They offered us a flight home on Sunday. I found an overnight bus for Thursday night that would take us from Barcelona to Madrid, where we've be able to get our scheduled transatlantic flight. We went for my plan instead, and bought those tickets. That was a bit of a curveball... Apparently, the protests have been getting rowdy during the night, burning things and clashing with police. We didn't see any of that during the day on our walks, but read about it the next day.
Montserrat Monastery
Can Bonastre winery
October 17 - Our last full(ish) day in Barcelona. We had pretty much done all of the things around the city that we wanted to do, so it was a matter of let's-not-miss and better-rest-up. We first headed back to the Barcelona Cathedral for a look around. It was honestly pretty dark and stuffy in there. Nick said he felt like something in the air was affecting his sinuses. We didn't stick around too long after that. We walked to yet another market (Santa Catarina's), then walked back toward La Rambla. We found a bar off the main street with 30 beers on tap. Stopped there to sample a few local brews and get the requisite bread-with-tomatoes tapas to tide us over. We walked back to the apartment, checked to make sure everything was okay with our flight from Madrid, then walked up to explore more of Montjuïc. Another gorgeous day. We wandered through gardens, along paths, past museums. We found ourselves by the Olympic Stadium. It was open and free, so we took advantage of that. Quick look around, then back outside. We found the "path of fame", where the footprint of various famous early 1990s athletes were made into large bronze disks set into the pavement. Nick has the same size feet as Michael Jordan :o) We walked back to the apartment and decided to rest. But it's not easy to rest when there's a helicopter hovering that you can see from the window... We learned that while we were out walking, protesters had blocked the Paral-lel road in both directions and the helicopter was watching it. Oh boy. We packed up our stuff, watched some shows, then headed to Carrer de Blai for an early dinner of pinxos. We ate (me, nervously so), had glasses of vermouth, then headed back to the apartment. We killed time watching BoJack, then left the apartment for good at 9:30. We took our bags and headed to the Metro. I was concerned about protests impeding our travel to the bus station, but we didn't have any problems heading there after all, thankfully. We got to the bus station, waited with many other people, got our assigned seats, and left at 11 pm. Gotta love the people on the bus who have no issue crinkling plastic bottles in the middle of the night.
Barcelona Cathedral & Montjuïc
October 18: We managed to get a few hours of sleep before arriving at the transit station in Madrid at 6 am. We caught a bus to the airport and got to our terminal at 6:30 am. We got checked in to our flight, and made the long trek to our terminal. It was surreal being the only people in the terminal for a couple of hours. We rested on the uncomfortable seats, got kicked out of the gate area in order to go through yet another passport check there an hour later. Ugh, but whatever. We were the first in line for the economy class check, and therefore were selected for the random bag check. As were about a third of the passengers. WTF. The flight was long, but left at about 11:45 am local time and got us back to Chicago a bit after 2 pm CDT.

Some other collections of pictures of things we saw:
To market, to market!
The drinks we drank
Details, details
Strange and unusual sights

Sunday, July 14, 2019

Summer Check-In

We've made it halfway through summer! Woot! So far, our summer can be summed up in one word: BALL. So much ball.

Recapping May... both kids finished up their school years with fantastic report cards. We're so proud! Iris had some issues with attention toward the end (she has ADHD, but no medication), but hopefully new challenges and new reading glasses for 2nd grade will help.

Iris played soccer this spring with Nick coaching. It was a challenge coordinating all the practices that the kids had. Iris has some good skills, but we'll see if she wants to continue playing.

Both kids played through their respective baseball/softball league seasons from mid-May through the end of June.
Iris at the plate
8U softball games were particularly challenging to endure (for both players and parents...). They are geared mainly toward pitching and hitting, so it's no surprise Iris's coach had the goal of "no sandcastles" every game. Iris definitely held her own, despite being moved up a league and being one of the tiniest on the field. She liked pitching (will have some natural skill once she's got the muscle to get it to the plate), catching (with gear that fits), and rarely struck out.

@ Waupaca, Felix pitching
Felix has been busy with league ball, tournament ball, and golf. We've been enjoying the tournament experience again this year - the boys have had moderate success (playing in a lot of hard-fought, close games), and we're getting to know the other families better. Felix has shown an affinity for catching, so we bought his a new set of catcher's gear and bag as part of his birthday present. The only downside has been how wet of a summer it's been - it's impacted our tournament games more than our league games. But it's been very rainy this summer so far.


Felix got a cool opportunity to go down to Madison with the First Tee program in June. He went down with a few other kids from the WR area, got to compete in a skills competition, meet Senior PGA golfers like Steve Stricker, take a tour and eat lunch in the VIP boxes on 18. It was a long day for him (had to leave WR by 6 am), but he liked it overall.

Steve Stricker (gray) watches Felix
And last but not least, Felix is now 10! Oh my goodness, we've been parents for a decade. What a smart, creative, artistic, athletic, challenging, clever human we've raised thus far. We are so proud. :,o) He got to throw out a first pitch at a Rapids Rafters game on the 11th, as did Gorman Thomas. Quite a cool experience! (https://youtu.be/fqzQHOuKVWs)



Awesome things - Good Omens mini-series, Killing Eve (finally getting around to this), Fleabag (Phoebe Waller-Bridge, you are amazing).

Felix: 10 yrs & Iris: 6.5 yrs

Monday, April 22, 2019

Spring 2019

Spring/summer sports season is nearly upon us, so I figured I would take a moment and catch up on the what we've been up to since my last post.

We celebrated Iris's half birthday on March 2nd. Normally, we wouldn't but since her teacher was celebrating summer birthdays at the kid's half birthday, we decided to take advantage and give Iris the friend birthday party she's never had. (It's difficult with her birthday falling before the school year and Labor Day). We had a pool party at the Y and she had a great time.

We hunkered down in March, enduring more snow and cold.

But finally, some excitement: Spring Break. We decided to stay a little closer to home, and took the kids down to Chicago. We spent three full days in the city, letting the kids decide our itinerary.

Day 0: Arrival
We arrived on Wednesday afternoon at the hotel in Skokie. I was in the midst of a bad cold/sinus infection, so I declined joining the others in swimming in the hotel pool. We drove over to Wheeler, to visit with our college friend Kyle, his wife Delphine, and 2.5-year-old daughter Louison. The kids played nicely, and we had a nice time catching up and eating deep dish pizza. :o)
Hello, friends!
Day 1: Downtown
After taking advice from Kyle, we drove downtown, parked, and walked along Michigan Avenue to the John Hancock building. The kids wanted to go up, so we did the 360 Chicago experience. We got there just after it opened, so it was nice and quiet. Great (albeit hazy) views. We stayed about an hour and a half before the kids got bored.
Looking north toward home
Felix really, really wanted to go see The Bean, so we walked back south to that. I'd never been up by it, and it's very popular. The weather was cool, but nice, so it wasn't too bad walking.

We ate lunch at a nearby French cafe. The kids were so-so about the haute cuisine. (¯\_(ツ)_/¯). They really wanted to go swimming next, so we headed back to the car. Because we had the Tesla, we stopped on the way to charge it. It was the Brewers opening day, so we followed along with the game while we waited. Finally, back to the hotel. We all went down to the pool this time. The kids swam until Iris whacked her head doing a flip. At that point, no more swimming. She got a nice egg-sized bump but was otherwise fine. We went to the nearby outdoor mall to get some dinner and wander. The kids enjoyed the outdoor play area. Back to the hotel for a quiet night.

Day 2: Shedd Aquarium
I gave the kids a list of many of the museums and experiences available to us in Chicago. The Aquarium was one they agreed on, so that's where we spent Friday. Again, we drove down and parked. We walked along the lake shore (chillier and windier today) until we reached it.

Had to wait in some lines, and the place was sooooo crowded. Why do people bring babies in strollers to places like this?? It might have been because of the crowds, but the kids were less enthralled by the aquarium than I thought they'd be. Oh well. We did walk around just about every exhibit. And, we ran into another family we knew, of all things. That was pretty funny.
Waving at dolphins
We headed back to the hotel after charging. Had another quiet evening and ate at that mall again.

Day 3: Museum of Science & Industry
Last day in Chicago. Both kids were excited to go to the MS&I. We spent several hours walking through the different exhibits (ooh, mirror maze!), going to the Tornado Alley movie, and letting the kids get souvenirs they watched get made on an assembly line.

Day 4: Brewers Game
Since Milwaukee was on the way home and the Brewers just happened to be playing an opening weekend series against the Cardinals there... We took advantage and took ourselves out to the ballgame. My folks joined us for the afternoon game. It was so cold and windy - thank goodness for the roof! We had great seats, stayed for the whole game, and saw a great come-from-behind win. Because the parking lot needed to clear out before we left, we let the kids do the run-the-bases thing. They both enjoyed that, despite the very long line. We had an uneventful drive home after that.
Go Brewers!
Since our trip, we've endured yet another snowstorm (Seriously? 10" in April? Again??), but have started looking forward to summer. Iris has been doing an intro-to-hockey class, and will be doing both rec soccer and softball this summer. Felix is on another tournament baseball team and will be doing league ball as well. Things are looking to get very busy, very quickly! Stay tuned!

Awesome Things: American Gods season 2, thundersleet, 80° days, melting snow.

Felix: 9.5 yrs & Iris: 6.5 yrs

Friday, March 1, 2019

Snow More

Wow, this has certainly been quite a winter with SO MUCH SNOW and SO MUCH COLD. The kids have missed 7 days of school due to one or the other so far this year, and with more potentially to come. Thank goodness I have the ability to telework. But seriously? -34 degrees? Just no.

Despite all of the winter, Iris has been busy with ice skating, gymnastics and swimming lessons. We're wrapping up gymnastics (fading interest) and ice skating, but she's taken well to the swimming lessons. Yay! One other thing of note is that she and Nick went to a Father-Daughter masquerade dance a few weeks ago. They both got dressed up and it was adorable.


Big change for her has been the pixie cut she got two weeks ago. She's wanted a boy cut and was asking to get her hair cut again, so, why not? It's super cute and no more snarls. She LOVES it. :D

We were informed that Felix has qualified to be in the Gifted and Talented program for math. We're so proud of him! Practically speaking, it means he's going to be pretested on upcoming units and may have accelerated or alternate lessons if it's something he grasps quickly. We'd just like to keep challenging him.
Playing on a snow day
Nick and I got away for Arts Bash up in Stevens Point and came home with some fine local artwork. It's nice to support that in the area.

We're looking forward to spring slaying winter. It's been a tough one on me - 11 years or so since I last had an occurrence of SAD, so it's been a challenge dealing with it again. Really hoping we have an early spring, but I don't have high hopes for that.
At least the sunrises have been beautiful!


Awesome things: Schitt's Creek

Felix: 9.5 yrs & Iris: 6.5 yrs

Monday, January 7, 2019

On to 2019

Now that the holidays are behind us, it's time for an update on our goings-on.

We celebrated Thanksgiving with family in GB and learned what it's like to take the Tesla on a road trip: that we have to stop and get coffee while it charges (alas!).

Just before Christmas, we had a bunch of to-dos. Iris was in a 1st grade holiday program at school, where she sang her little heart out with the others in her class. Nick and I got all glammed up for a holiday party.
Channeling my inner Mrs. Maisel. :o)
We got a new kitten! He's a one-year-old rescue from the humane society. We went in at 12:30 pm on a Saturday because the kids just "wanted to go to the cat store." Nick and I resigned ourselves to what would inevitably follow. We just made the best of it. While the kids poked their fingers in the cages, I honed in on a few likely candidates. Little Raspy (so named because his meow is a whisper) drew my attention because he was about the age I wanted, and he didn't use his claws when playing with my fingers. We took him into a side room to see how he would do with the kids (very well). Filled out adoption paperwork and left with Iris in tears (thinking we wouldn't get him for nearly a month). Started brainstorming names as we ran other errands. Nick rejected Christian Mewlich and Growlie Fingers, but ended our naming quest with Robin Meownt. At 1:45, got a call asking if we could come back to the shelter at 2:30. And at 3 pm, left the shelter with our newest little furry family member! Roary has come around to him. We're hoping Amy does, too, once Robin has been fixed. He's a very good little kitten who tolerates Iris picking him in his adopting of us, except he likes people food a bit too much. Lesson learned!
Robin Meownt!
We had lovely Christmas gatherings with family near and far. And Iris lost three more teeth, including one on Christmas day. Apparently a visit from only Santa wasn't good enough for her. 😉

Lastly, we got to meet our newest and teeniest little neighbor. The kids approve.
Welcome to the neighborhood and world, Asher!
We had ourselves a fine 2018 and hope 2019 turns out to be a pretty good vintage as well!

Awesome stuff: Kitties (of course), Crazy Ex-Girlfriend (binged, now awaiting more!), Marvelous Mrs. Maisel, the Badger football season finale.

Felix: 9 yrs & Iris: 6 yrs

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